Ok, have you heard about the ‘Gay Men Draw Vaginas’ kickstarter campaign? It’s quirky. It’s cute. And I’m a big fan of both. But… On the day I heard of the campaign I read the article titled ‘Pregnancy Rates High for Queer Youth‘ on the cover of my local 24Hours free newspaper. See, the thing … Continue Reading »
[This post was recently featured in Melissa Carr’s blog, The Thirties Grind] Pleasure is good, yes? We can, I think, admit that experiencing pleasure in life is one of it’s great, um, pleasures. For some, pleasure a great meal with fine wine and friends. For others, yoga, a hot bath or a polar bear dip … Continue Reading »
Teach your kids about dirty talk (’cause it builds open communication, supports enthusiastic consent and is hot).
I imagined her lying flat on her back, being fucked. Thirteen years young and engaging in sexual intercourse. Physiologically old enough to get pregnant, emotionally unprepared for sex. I don’t hold firm ideas about ‘the right age for doing it’ but when I sat across from a young woman and her friend, to provide sexual … Continue Reading »